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reminding us how to be human in A TECHNOLOGICAL TIME.


MAY WE SEARCH FOR AND FIND THE ALIVENESS IN THINGS. MAY WE SEARCH FOR AND FIND EVERYTHING LEFT.

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reminding us how to be human in A TECHNOLOGICAL TIME.


MAY WE SEARCH FOR AND FIND THE ALIVENESS IN THINGS. MAY WE SEARCH FOR AND FIND EVERYTHING LEFT.

 

REMEMBER. Relearn. RETURN.

 

Let this serve as a place to tap into connection, communion, and belonging. First and foremost with yourself.

Let this serve as the place you come to reclaim, and tend to, the kind of fluency you were born with.

Welcome to a space and a time dedicated to YOU. To finding and stepping into your own aliveness, to the re-membrance and re-creation of self.


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I am a harbinger.

I come with an abundance of words and a house for you to rest within.

Harbinger| ˈhärbənjər 

From Old French, meaning “provide lodging for those on a journey.”

I have placed myself inside the slipstream of multiple journeys, each of them taking me to the cusp of myself and beyond.

From those journeys, I have gathered many tools and learned I am here to do two things:

1. WRITE: Use pen and ink to share my own experience wading through rivers of love, loss and the liminal; and

2. GUIDE: Provide lodging and nourishment (metaphorical and literal) as you step into yours.

This is my calling. This is my job.

 
 

FEATURE OFFERING

 

THE NATURE OF NARRATIVE RETREAT

March 20 - 23, 2025 - Whidbey Island, WA

Tuning into knowing. Turning it into narrative. Three days of embodied creativity at the water’s edge.

 
 

Three days of embodied creativity at the water’s edge.

The etymology of the word narrative is from Latin gnarus ‘knowing’ .

In other words, the stories we tell, the narratives we write, and the lives we create from that place are really about two things:

1. Discovering our deepest knowings, the erudition that lives in our flesh; and

2. Connecting the dots of those knowings to form a chain of wisdom that can help guide us through our past, present, and future at once.

Join me for a long weekend of using paper and ink to deepen your craft as well as your life.

$2,250 all-inclusive ($950 deposit required)

 

PUBLISHING NEWS

 

My second book, Everything Left to Remember, is available now.

2022 Kirkus Prize Nonfiction Nominee

2022 Amazon Editors’ Pick - Best Biographies & Memoirs

“A hauntingly beautiful memoir…” - KING5 News

 
 

AS FEATURED IN:

 
 
 
 
 
Jagger offers a beautiful reflection on love, memory, and inheritance in this heartrending account of a road trip she took through Big Sky Country- it’s one that readers will have a hard time forgetting. This will cast a spell on fans of Cheryl Strayed and Glennon Doyle.
— Publisher's Weekly
 
 
 

IN THE MEDIA

How Endurance Sports Taught Me to Grieve

At the end of my mother’s struggle with Alzheimer’s disease, I realized I needed to handle my sorrow the same way I approached athletic training…

My Mom and Grandma Have Alzheimer’s

Here’s what I’ve learned about myself by watching them no longer remember who they are…


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HELD WITHIN YOU are a million BUDS OF ALIVENESS.


May each of them come into bloom.

HELD WITHIN YOU are a million BUDS OF ALIVENESS.


May each of them come into bloom.

 

offerings & EXPERIENCES

 

All of my offerings, guided workshops, in-person retreats, and coaching & mentorship programs are connection-rich and content lite.

The focus is on presence as opposed to production. Being as opposed to doing.

 

Private Practice Coaching

Exploring what it means to both root and soar.

Leaning into expansion.

Breathing into a life of clarity and spaciousness.

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Events

All the details you need for how and when to interact with Steph.

Online and in-person.

In-Person Retreats

Intimate, small-group events.

Getaways that feel less like leaving and more like a return.

Recreation and re-creation. The nature of flourishing.


I tether my work to a sense of belonging. I meet your humanity with the depths of my own. I use the wilderness outside of us as an access point to the wilderness inside of us.

If you are looking for spaces in which to be witnessed and held in a personal way, you’re in the right place.

I do hope you’ll join me.